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THE TRIPOD OF CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE

  • Writer: Olufunmilayo Adekusibe
    Olufunmilayo Adekusibe
  • Jun 14
  • 3 min read

Today’s Reading:

Genesis 2: 18 - 25 

“Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” (Genesis 2: 18)

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By way of definition, a tripod means a three-legged rack used for support. Tripod in this context means the three essential pillars of Christian marriage. Without these three, we can’t call it a Christian marriage.  The success of any Christian marriage rests solely on the three. Not on one or two but the three. The roles played by these individuals will go a long way in determining the strength and success of such a marriage.


In Genesis 2:18, the message version of the Bible says: God said it’s not good for the man to be alone, l’ll make him a helper, a companion. The three tripod, according to the text, are: God, Man and A Helper or Companion. The focus for now will be on God, which is the G factor of Christian marriage. The following must be noted:

  • The first person we see is God; without him, nothing will work.

  • It was God who initiated marriage, not the man or his helper, not even the devil.

  • God said it is not good; until God speaks, no Christian marriage must be initiated. why? Because it is His word that will sustain the marriage.

Upholding all things by the word of his power. Hebrews 2:3b
Amplified version says “upholding and propelling all things (the entire physical and spiritual universe) by his powerful word (carrying the universe along to its predetermined goal).” Hebrews 2:3b

Folks, God’s word is the ultimate foundation of Christian Marriage.  Revisit the scripture, it is God who said it is not good. Let’s consider some voices today that speak to single ladies and brothers, that it is time to get hooked up.

  1. Parental Voice: “My friend’s children are getting married, where is your spouse?” This is one of the statements from parents that usually puts singles on their toes to get a suitor by all means. The pressure sometimes has pushed some singles into a relationship they never wanted.

  2. Peer Voice: “All my friends are getting married, when will I get married?” Some singles have listened to their peers and ventured into a failed marriage.

  3. Degree Voice: This is when an individual feels “after my first degree or schooling, the next thing is marriage”.

  4. Pastoral Voice: Some pastors have given their words to singles to start a relationship, some through match-making. I have even seen some pastors mounting pressure on their members to get into a relationship. Pastors need to be careful at this point, the Pastoral work should be more of guidance than authority.

  5. Achievement Voice: Some singles have decided not to go into any relationship until they achieve a particular thing, like building their own house, having a specific amount in their bank account, etc.


As much as all these voices are good, they should not be considered as primary as far as choosing a life partner is concerned. Until God speaks, all other voices must be quiet. And when he speaks, all other voices must submit to Him. Any voice that will not be in agreement with His voice should be shunned. The voice of God is the ultimate event to those who are married. Is there any issue with your spouse or in your marriage?  Listen to God’s voice through His word, and you can be sure of a lasting solution if only you will adhere.

                                                                                                       

To surrender your life to Christ, say this prayer aloud. “Father, I acknowledge my sin against You. I repent and ask for forgiveness, in the name of Jesus. I surrender to the Lordship of Jesus. By the power of Your Holy Spirit, take control of my heart and lead me in Your path of righteousness. Thank you, Lord.”  

If you said the prayer, Congratulations! You are welcome to the body of Christ. Prayerfully look for a living church and meet the resident reverend, pastor or priest.



Prayer:

  1. Oh Lord send help to our singles at the point of choosing a life partner.

  2. Every voice of confusion at the point of choosing a life partner, we silence them in Jesus’ name.

  3. May our singles not miss it in Jesus’ name.

  4. Every marital storm in any Christian marriage, be still in Jesus’ name.

 
 
 

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